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I do not often write personal posts, and this is one of the few, and it is not about me but about a friend whom I shall call R. R is one of the brightest men I know. He served his country in the armed forces for some years before moving into civilian life and taking a PhD, after which he entered the academic world where his life-experience put him, it would be fair to say, somewhat at odds with the usual ways in which academics do things. R liked to see results, he liked to be know why we were doing things and wanted to be able to calibrate the results; where was the data? Intellectually he was entirely untouched by groupthink. In a collectivist profession, he was an individualist. In the end he tired of it and went to do other things with his life. This was, I thought, academic life’s loss. On a personal level, because it meant I saw less of him, I was upset; though from his point of view, I could see, entirely, why he’d done it.
One of the areas where we had respectful disagreement (R was a gentleman to the core and had no other sort of disagreement) was my Christianity. He could see, historically, what Christianity had contributed to the history of Western Europe and to its value system, but beyond that, it eluded him. He was not an atheist who felt any need to attack or undermine Christianity, or who felt hostility toward it; but nor could he see why anyone might be a Christian.
Imagine, then, my surprise, a few days ago, to receive from him an email telling me that he had converted to Christianity and was now, with his family (a wonderful wife and two marvellous children) attending an Evangelical Alliance Church near to where they live. We have not, yet, had an opportunity to talk about this, but he thanked me, inter alia for recommending this site, and says he has found it very useful as a new Christian. My delight is threefold. R is simply one of the best men I know, a man of searing integrity who would rather suffer financial and personal loss than compromise his integrity. He is also a man who has his own ‘thorn’ as St Paul called his own ailment. So that He should have found Christ is simply a source of huge pleasure. It has been transformational, he says, and there seems to me a rightness in that. It is right that such a man should, in the encounter with Christ, find his world transformed. And that thought that this place has been useful to him, is all the justification I ever needed to keep running it.
So, R, welcome, and I know I speak for all the shades of Christian witness present here, in expressing joy that you have passed from darkness into light. My pleasure for you and your family is unbounded, my old friend, and I look forward to our being able to expand our conversations into this new area for us.
NEO said:
How wonderful! I am very pleased to add my welcome to yours.
And yes, this alone makes all the time and effort we have (but especially you) put into this place worth it.
A very good start to the year.
Welcome, again to your (and hopefully soon) our friend.
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chalcedon451 said:
Thanks, Neo. He’s a great guy – one of the best. Don’t know if he still comes here, but if he does, he’ll know how welcome he is 🙂
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NEO said:
He sounds like one, they very rare. Hope he does, although no, we don’t know, But he surely is! 🙂
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chalcedon451 said:
He is indeed a rare sort of man – wish we had more of his ilk.
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NEO said:
As do I. Well, we do our best, and the fact that they exist, gives us hope.
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chalcedon451 said:
R gas, he tells me, read this and is much moved and encouraged 😊
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NEO said:
Yay! Outstanding, his story has moved us greatly, as well “D
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NEO said:
or rather 😀
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Bosco the Immaculate said:
Jesus stands at the door and Knocks. If anyman hear his voice and opens the door, he will come in and sup with him.
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chalcedon451 said:
This seems to have been what happen to R – so we call all rejoice
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malcolmlxx said:
Thank God for R’s witness and love for Christ amidst the strife of this age. God be with you brother.
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chalcedon451 said:
It is good to see the Spirit at work in the world 🙂
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famphillipsfrancis said:
Lovely to hear this news, Chalcedon, which I did not anticipate from your introductory paragraphs. Today at Mass, as my mind wandered momentarily from the homily, I was thinking to myself “Christianity is meant to be transformational”; it is not a set or moral or religious propositions (though that is part of it); it is about becoming a ‘new man or woman’, transformed by the grace of God. When you have experienced this it changes you forever.
Who knows, your friend might make the same chequered journey you have made yourself and find himself one day in Rome…
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chalcedon451 said:
One can never tell – but God’s grace in endless .
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Scoop said:
Indeed Francis; from the first transformation or conversion of heart which elicits the “I believe” from the depths of one’s soul to the transformational decision to answer “here am I Lord, I’ve come to do your will”, transformation of the soul is pivotal. And it is from that conscious decision and choice that we embark on a journey of many transformations to learn and ascertain what it means to do God’s Will; to make His will our own. In that context, the Mass, the Sacraments and the moral and religious propositions you speak of are invaluable. Without guidance we set sail without a compass and without any expertise in sailing whatever. We are at the mercy of the winds of change and currents of each passing age. So they are indeed a welcome aid to the pilgrim who wishes to cross the great sea of life and to avoid the dangers which might bring us to total shipwreck or helplessly lost without any means to stay decide what is the next right step that I should make in this life or what must I do to correct course after failing to follow the charts prepared for us by 2000 years of sailors who managed this journey successfully.
And kudos to R for taking the first steps on the Way. Wishing you God’s speed as you encounter the obstacles that always follow. Courage, fortitude with a good dose of faith, hope and charity is my wish for you on this voyage. May the lights of God be alwatys visible and allow you to navigate this life with a light that daily draws you nearer to the promised shore. And if the lights become obscured may the holy spirit guide your journey until the fog lifts and the next sunrise provides you with a clearer view of where you are and how you are to arrive safely at your destination.
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Bosco the Immaculate said:
your friend might make the same chequered journey you have made yourself and find himself one day in Rome…
IF the man is born again, which it sounds like, he will never wind up in that graven image filled snake pit of Rome.
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Bosco the Immaculate said:
Id love to hear this man testimony on how he was led to the LORD>
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chalcedon451 said:
I shall tell more now I have spoken to him
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Philip Augustine said:
Praise the Lord! God Bless R. Amen, Amen, Christ has left the 99 to find his lost sheep.
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chalcedon451 said:
Indeed – the Lord’s name be praised!
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