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When I was a little girl growing up in Wales, most people I knew were ‘CofW’ (Church of Wales) or ‘Baptist’. There was a class element in this – those in the C of W were usually more middle class than the Baptists. But most of us were whatever we were and we stayed that way. It wasn’t until I went to University that I came across anyone who changed their religion – and in that case it was two of my friends who converted to Islam when they married. It turned out others ‘converted’ to other parts of Christianity. It was often a fraught process – and back then it was far less easy than it is now to find out details of what other churches believed. What struck me, and still sticks with me, is what it means to be a Christian, let alone be a Catholic, an Anglican, a Baptist or whatever? We get glimpses of it here.
For most of the people I have known, being a Christian was only a part of who they were, and this, I think, is why it can seem to some as though we are picking and choosing. We are made new in Christ, but the old Adam (or Eve) is far from erased, and so we make accommodations. Few of us can devote the whole working week to the Lord, and the society in which most of us live is one at best indifferent, and at worst actively hostile to our Christianity – and in places and at times, it becomes increasingly difficult to offer the sort of public witness which, for example, Geoffrey Sales and others who do street preaching offer. But they can do no other – and from me, at least, that commands great respect. They are carrying out the Great Commission.
If I can venture into an area which seems to have occasioned some turbulence here – love, it seems to me that we risk, as so often, over-thinking, and thus over complicating, it. It seems to me not that complicated. To those in pain, to those who seek our help, and to those in needs, we offer our time and compassion and help. Where I am working now some do this, as I do, in the Lord’s name, some do it in the name of their faith in our common humanity. I didn’t think the refugees we’re working with cared why we are doing it, and I am sure many don’t, and yet just the other day one woman, who had seen me make the sign of the Cross before praying the Angelus, said: ‘you Christian? Me too’. She asked if we could pray together. So we did, kneeling down and saying the Lord’s Prayer. It turned out she was a Syrian Orthodox Christian, but at that moment, in that somewhat spartan hall, as we knelt together, all that mattered was we were sisters in Christ. Perhaps that’s all that ever really matters?
Geoffrey RS Sales said:
Aye, lass, we Christians could complicate anything if we think long enough before acting. Fortunately, some times we just act as the Spirit moves us – and then we do His will. Best of luck to you, and prayers for your good work.
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JessicaHof said:
Thank you kindly, Geoffrey – it’s certainly keeping me busy 🙂
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Philip Augustine said:
A lot of times, I suppose that many of us do not realize we’ve went too far until the other party has already felt the sting of our sinful venom. At that time all we can do is apologize. I commend Geoff for accepting my apology for a low blow when I could just explained my thoughts on the matter tactfully. I would suggest all to follow his example, as he forgave me with ease.
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JessicaHof said:
Good advice to us all, Philip 🙂 xx
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Geoffrey RS Sales said:
Thank you, Philip – I’ve erred often enough in that direction to know it – and forgive as freely as I hope to be forgiven.
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JessicaHof said:
It can be, I agree. I have often let it, but simply giving up some time and energy to helping others has not been hard. I only wish I’d more time.
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NEO said:
All that Geoffrey said, dearest friend.
You manage to have the most uplifting experiences in your faith, sometimes (often really) I envy you! 🙂 xx
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JessicaHof said:
It’s an opportunity to put my faith into practice – just wish I had more time (and probably more faith, which would produce the time) 🙂 xx
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NEO said:
Well, maybe! Although I surely agree, about both the time, and the faith! 🙂 xx
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Rob said:
Jess We are very much on the same page in term of our approach to those outside the church being one of unconditional love rather than of condemnation over their sin,
But just a short comment on something you said here which I think on reflection you will also agree with. You said –
“Few of us can devote the whole working week to the Lord, …”
This little phrase tends to reinforce a view of a division between the sacred and the secular. Whereas Paul spoke of whatever we were “doing, doing it as to the Lord.” Such an approach rather than diminishing matters considered sacred lifts the whole of life and all one’s activities into the realm of the sacred.
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JessicaHof said:
Thank you for that Rob – and yes, I agree, that is we do everything as though it were for the Lord, we essentially turn everything into a prayer – good point Rob.
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Jock McSporran said:
Good post, but it’s a statement of the obvious and somewhat depressing when such a statement has to be made on a blog that is supposed to be … umm … ecumenical in its aims.
I apologise for my part in lowering the tone – and with hopes that it can improve.
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NEO said:
Good on you, Jock. We’ve all had our part in that, and together we can fix it. If we don’t, I suspect we’ll lose this place, eventually. 🙂
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JessicaHof said:
Hope we don’t 🙂 xx But as you say, it’s up to us. I think we all owe C a vote of thanks for keeping the ship on course and afloat – and putting up with us all – or is that just me? 😳
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NEO said:
Me too 🙂 xx No, you’re not alone, he deserves more thanks than we’ll could give him, in the rest of our lives. We’re an often contentious lot! 😉
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JessicaHof said:
I sometimes think he should have chosen the penname ‘Job’!
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chalcedon451 said:
Thank you both of you. 🙂
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JessicaHof said:
🙂 xx
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NEO said:
It would surely be appropriate!
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NEO said:
🙂
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JessicaHof said:
Sometimes what is obvious gets obscured, so if it has been unobscured (is that a word?) then we’re all the better for it 🙂
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Servus Fidelis said:
Believe it or not I’ve been trying to be good but sometimes it doesn’t look like it. 🙂
Good post, Jess.
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JessicaHof said:
We all try, and we all fail – the important thing is we don’t give up the attempt – thank you 🙂 Being kept busy at the moment – but all in a good cause 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Glad it is going well for you in your new life in the big city. 🙂 The problem with life in the big city, of course, is that you have to put your shoes on. 🙂 xx
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JessicaHof said:
I’m rather happy with that – less driving. It is offering opportunities to work with those who have fled the violence in the Middle East, and that is a good thing. I miss my old working in the soup kitchens, and this is a welcome return to practical things.
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Servus Fidelis said:
Sounds like so far it has suited you quite well.
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JessicaHof said:
I think so. Getting used to having things so conveniently near by. Also offers more opportunity for service – which is good.
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Servus Fidelis said:
Just stay safe, my friend. Cities are not always filled people of the most honorable intentions.
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JessicaHof said:
I’m trying to remember that – sometimes a bit scary, but if I keep to well-lit places and don’t go where it’s unsafe, that helps 🙂
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Servus Fidelis said:
You may soon develop a 6th sense that is very helpful. I did after living on the lower east side of New York. It comes in very handy. Then it becomes a second sense that warns you to be wary, to leave if you can or be ready for the unexpected. Trusting my got was my biggest ally in my own survival.
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JessicaHof said:
Good advice – I’m fortunate in that my flat mate knows the city well and has already told me where not to go 🙂
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Servus Fidelis said:
Good to have an experienced guide when you are in an unfamiliar surrounding. 🙂
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JessicaHof said:
Yes, I think I’d have struggled – not to mention with the rent too 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Indeed so. Well it sounds you are off to a positive start. 🙂 xx
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JessicaHof said:
Yes, and it is good to feel that I can be of help to those who really need it – I’ve always preferred my Christianity to be practical – St James has always spoken to me 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Indeed so. 🙂 xx
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JessicaHof said:
Their plight is heart-rending, and some of the things I have heard are truly awful – shows how quickly we can descend into barbarism – God help them – and us all 🙂
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Servus Fidelis said:
After living in the lower east side of NYC, I knew evil and barbarity were quite real. Its an eye opener if you haven’t witnessed it up close and personal. 🙂
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JessicaHof said:
Yes, my flat mate is an excellent guide – she’s lived here for years and knows the place inside out – I take her advice 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Yes, advice from survivors is far preferrable from those who haven’t. 🙂 xx
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JessicaHof said:
Yes, she went to uni here and has some horror stories – so I am well-guided 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Indeed one need know all of the story: the good, the bad and the ugly. 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Jess if you look in the trash bin you will see that I have twice now tried to give an answer to QVO and both times they have ended in the trash bin. I have no earthly understanding as to why that has happened. Can you look into it for me?
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JessicaHof said:
I’ll ask C – he now controls things 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Thanks.
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JessicaHof said:
A pleasure – he’s dealt with it I see 🙂 xx
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Servus Fidelis said:
Yes, thanks to you both. 🙂 xx
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